Why You Should Try Online Dating
Are you suddenly single? This is my new reality and after years of married life, I have to say it has been a challenge. Online Dating isn’t new and can be scary but here are some great reasons to give it a try.
Have you ever found yourself wondering how people meet? When you are a kid, you meet friends at school. As you get older, you start university and work, and you meet new people. Every time you move to a new location, you meet new people. It’s easy to make new friends or find someone new to date. Then, you settle into a job. You could work at the same place, with the same people for years. So, how do you meet people? It’s suddenly much harder than it used to be, and if you’re single, that can be a worry.
Many of us now turn to an online dating or matching making site for help. There are sites for people looking for a serious relationship, those that just want to date, and for people looking for relationships within a specific culture or interest group. Whatever you are looking for in a date, there is a website that can help you find it. In fact, around 1 in 5 relationships, today are believed to start online, with this number set to increase in the future.
Despite this, many people are still a little wary of online dating. They worry about the dangers and what other people could think. If you are tempted by looking for love online but have some concerns, here are some of the benefits to help you get stuck in.
The Chance to Talk
Starting a relationship online gives you a great chance to talk to someone for a while before meeting them for the first time. It gives you a chance to make sure you’ve got things in common, and that you can have a conversation, without the risk of an awkward, silent first date.
It also gives you the chance to make sure you are on the same page as your prospective date. When you meet someone in real life, it can be hard to share certain things straight away. So, you wait until you know them a little better. Then, it’s tough if you get rejected for it. Online, you can explain any baggage before the meeting, to avoid wasting anyone’s time.
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The main concern that people have with online dating is safety. They worry that they might end up speaking to someone that’s not being honest or isn’t who they say they are. They worry about being hurt or scammed online. But, in reality, online dating is just as safe as meeting someone in real life and probably a lot safer than meeting someone in a bar after a few drinks when your inhibitions are low.
Trust your instincts, use your common sense, make sure your friends know who you are talking to and where you are when you meet, and generally, be careful. But, don’t assume it’s more dangerous than a face to face meeting.
It’s Easy to be Fussy
When it comes to finding a partner, it’s good to be fussy, and you should certainly never settle. But, it can be hard in real life. When you are sat facing someone, it’s hard to let them down gently. But, online, you can read profiles and look at pictures before even talking to them. Be as fussy as you want; they’ll never even know.
You Can Take It Slowly
One of the main benefits of online dating is that you can go at your own pace. You can talk to someone for as long as you need to before meeting. If they try to rush you, move on. It’s also a great way back into the dating world if you’ve been out of the game for a long time. You don’t even have to meet anyone if you don’t want to. You can just chat and flirt a little until you are ready for more.
You’ll Get Better Matches
Many online dating sites look at your interests and hobbies, as well as your photographs, history and requirements, to come up with potential matches. You can add your own filters, such as age and location, maybe even education or career, to narrow it down. You’re not just going out into the world to look for a partner. There’s science behind your search making it much more likely that you’ll find the right match.
There’s No Awkward Approach
We all see people we find attractive every day. But, how do you approach them? You don’t know anything about them. You don’t know if they are single or looking, and you have no way to be sure they want you to approach. This can lead to a very awkward hello. There’s none of this online. If people are on the site, they are looking for something.